The Hidden Cost of Reinventing Yourself
Start your 14 day free trial of Waking Up at https://www.wakingup.com/solvedThere is one category of change that is faster, deeper, and more permanent than anything else in psychology. It can happen in a single moment. It rewrites who you are. And it's almost always set off by something most people would never choose to go through. In this chapter, Mark tells the story of losing his closest friend at 19 and the overnight transformation that followed, William James and the "sick souls" who only change under unbearable weight, and the four-step pattern researchers have found behind nearly every case of quantum change.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
01:13 The night Josh died
06:17 Transformation is rarely pleasant
07:54 The science of sudden change
13:10 The "sick souls"
16:18 The quantum change research
22:48 When values flip overnight
25:06 Triggers: trauma and rock bottom
28:16 Can you do it on purpose?
31:19 Collapse, void, reorganization
37:30 The psychedelics question
43:14 You can't change in one day
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