7 Subtle Signs People Instantly Lose Attraction
Have you ever wondered what makes someone unattractive in relationships or social situations? In this video, we explore the psychology of attraction and the subtle psychological habits that make you unattractive without you even realizing it. Many people don’t notice the small behaviors that push people away, but these habits can slowly affect how others see you.Watch: 10 Habits That Instantly Boost Your Attraction
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Further Reading & Sources:
Authenticity vs. constant self-presentation in relationships
Kernis, M. H., & Goldman, B. M. (2006).
A multicomponent conceptualization of authenticity: Theory and research. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 38, 283–357.
https://doi.org/10.1016/S0065-2601(06)38006-9
This research explores the psychology of authenticity and suggests that people who behave in more genuine and self-congruent ways tend to form stronger and more satisfying relationships.
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Attention and responsiveness in romantic attraction
Reis, H. T., Clark, M. S., & Holmes, J. G. (2004).
Perceived partner responsiveness as an organizing construct in the study of intimacy and closeness. Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy, 201–225.
Studies on perceived responsiveness show that feeling heard, understood, and emotionally attended to is one of the strongest predictors of intimacy and attraction in relationships.
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Depth, curiosity, and meaningful conversations
Aron, A., Aron, E. N., & Smollan, D. (1992).
Inclusion of other in the self scale and the structure of interpersonal closeness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(4), 596–612.
https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.63.4.596
Research on interpersonal closeness suggests that deeper conversations, shared interests, and intellectual curiosity can strengthen connection and attraction between people.
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Social comparison and relationship satisfaction
Festinger, L. (1954).
A theory of social comparison processes. Human Relations, 7(2), 117–140.
https://doi.org/10.1177/001872675400700202
Social comparison theory explains why constantly comparing ourselves or our partners to others—especially through social media—can lead to dissatisfaction and reduced relationship quality.
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Emotional regulation and relationship stability
Gross, J. J. (2015).
Emotion regulation: Current status and future prospects. Psychological Inquiry, 26(1), 1–26.
https://doi.org/10.1080/1047840X.2014.940781
Emotion regulation research shows that the ability to manage emotional reactions calmly is linked to healthier relationships and greater interpersonal stability.
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Defensiveness and conflict in relationships
Gottman, J. M., & Levenson, R. W. (1992).
Marital processes predictive of later dissolution: Behavior, physiology, and health. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(2), 221–233.
https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.63.2.221
Research from relationship psychologist John Gottman found that defensiveness during conflict is one of the behaviors most strongly associated with relationship dissatisfaction and breakdown.
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