If You Have to Chase Them, They're Not Your Person | Quinlan Walther
Chasing someone who keeps you at a distance costs more than you think. Quinlan Walther lost herself doing it.In this episode, Quinlan Walther and Jay Shetty talk about the spark, the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and why love as a feeling is not enough.
Quinlan shares how she lost herself chasing the feeling of being chosen, until she hit rock bottom. She explains where that pattern began, and what the honest conversations with her mother before she died in 2019 changed in her.
Jay opens up about the scoreboard he kept in love, and the words from his wife that made him see it. They also talk about requests versus demands, the people who get upset when you set boundaries, and whether "the one" really exists.
Learn why the spark can fool you about chemistry. And learn the one question that shows if you love someone or just the idea of them.
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Chapters
0:00 Is the Spark Real?
5:46 Is Love Enough?
6:52 When They Think There Are Plenty of Fish
10:09 Learning to Show Up for Yourself
13:06 Healing Your Past Before Your Next Partner
15:50 The Scoreboard That Kills Love
19:55 What Your Partner Says About You
21:33 When Your Partner Isn't Present
22:41 Requests vs. Demands
24:28 Who Gets Upset by Your Boundaries
29:01 Tired of Dating?
30:37 Is There Such a Thing as "The One"?
32:51 In Love With Them or the Idea of Them?
34:24 How to Trust Yourself After a Breakup
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