Toxic Relationships, Solved: Why We Stay (And How to Leave)
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If you have ever watched someone you love stay in a relationship that is destroying them, or if you have been that person yourself, this episode will shine a lot of light on what is really going on under the hood.
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Chapters:
0:00:00 CHAPTER 1: Why Smart People Stay in Bad Relationships
0:04:00 CHAPTER 2: The Johnny Depp and Amber Heard Backstory
0:14:30 CHAPTER 3: Mechanism 1 — Normalization
0:27:00 CHAPTER 4: Mechanism 2 — The Identity Trap
0:41:30 CHAPTER 5: Mechanism 3 — The Slot Machine Effect
0:51:30 CHAPTER 6: Mechanism 4 — Cognitive Dissonance
1:01:30 CHAPTER 7: Mechanism 5 — The Sunk Cost Fallacy
1:10:30 CHAPTER 8: Mechanism 6 — The Guilt Cage
1:16:00 CHAPTER 9: Mechanism 7 — The Terror of the Void
1:24:00 CHAPTER 10: The Aftermath of Johnny and Amber
1:30:00 CHAPTER 11: How to Counteract Each Mechanism
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