Boundaries, Solved: How to Set (And Keep) Your Boundaries This Year
This is probably the most comprehensive, no-bullshit breakdown of boundaries you're going to find anywhere. We cover what boundaries actually are (spoiler: it’s not just telling people to f*ck off), why they matter more than you think, and how your entire life—your relationships, mental health, identity, even career—is quietly shaped by whether or not you have them.By the end of this, you’ll know exactly how to set boundaries, how to enforce them without being a jerk, and how to stop confusing your preferences, rules, and passive-aggressive texts for actual emotional maturity. Plus, we talk about how the internet has totally mangled this concept and what to do instead. If you’ve ever felt burned out, resentful, overwhelmed, or just vaguely annoyed by everyone around you... this is for you.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:29 Chapter 1: Foundations of Boundaries
02:05 The Breakdown: What boundaries actually are (and aren’t)
04:42 The Spectrum: Porous, Rigid, Healthy
09:06 Boundaries vs. Values, Rules, Preferences, and Requests
13:32 What happens when boundaries erode?
18:46 The Solution: Boundaries as structure and freedom
22:57 Chapter 2: Boundaries: Freedom Through Limitation
25:09 Creativity with Limitations
29:15 Mental Health and Limitations
38:53 Example
42:54 Boundaries and Maturity
45:20 Chapter 3: Why Boundaries Matter
50:00 The Basis of Boundary Formation: Values
58:30 Translating Values into Boundaries
1:04:06 The Application: Living Your Valued Boundaries
1:10:14 Chapter 4: Why We Fail to Set and Maintain Boundaries
1:11:11 Developmental Origins
1:22:53 Personality and Individual Differences
1:29:48 Emotional Regulation and Mental Health
1:46:06 Chapter 5: Types of Boundaries
1:46:53 Physical Boundaries
1:49:28 Emotional Boundaries
1:51:44 Intellectual Boundaries
1:56:02 Time Boundaries
2:00:03 Digital Boundaries
2:09:01 Financial Boundaries
2:12:42 Family boundaries
2:18:52 Friendship Boundaries
2:23:06 Work Relationship Boundaries
2:28:22 Boundaries around authority
2:30:02 Self Boundaries
2:34:39 Chapter 6: How to Set and Maintain Boundaries
3:13:37 Chapter 7: Boundaries in Romantic Relationships
3:30:52 Parenting
3:37:04 Research & Frameworks
3:40:44 Western Romance
3:44:48 Chapter 8: The 80/20 of Boundaries Receive SMS online on sms24.me
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