What No One Tells You About Attracting the Wrong Partner | Dr. K
You did everything right.You took every step you were told to take.
Then one day you wake up and this isn't the life you want.
Dr. K says it's called a quarter life crisis, and almost no one can see it.
In this episode, Dr. K and Jay Shetty talk about why people in their 20s and 30s feel lost. The old plan for life no longer works, school costs too much, rent is too high and the goals we were given are out of reach.
Dr. K explains what to do when you feel late. He shares the Buddha's idea of the second arrow, and why it applies to good news too. And he tells the story of a patient who wouldn't quit smoking, until he asked him one hard question about his daughters.
Learn about the baggage you bring to every date without knowing it and why Dr. K says "be yourself" is the worst advice you can get.
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Chapters
0:00 Why people feel lost when life looks fine
1:08 The quarter life crisis
2:52 Why the goals can't be reached anymore
5:34 What to do when you feel behind
6:00 Identification vs. identity
9:03 The second arrow
10:12 Why good news can trap you too
12:43 How to stop caring what people think
19:31 The baggage you carry into every date
24:18 Why you should look at people you're not attracted to
24:56 Why "be yourself" is terrible advice
26:13 What it means to be a man right now
31:32 Why knowing what to do doesn't change what you do
34:23 Focus on the cost, not the benefit
35:58 The three things that create purpose
41:01 The Final Five
43:34 Watch what happens, not what you do
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